Our well-being is important and yes, it should be! We do things daily to take care of ourselves. Some of us take care of our natural body by eating well and perhaps exercising too. We do various things for our health, our body, our mind, and our personal well-being. Thinking of well-being, our brain affects our thinking, our mood and how we feel. How are we doing in this time, are we anxious or perhaps feeling bleak and depressed?
Ever heard about the vagus nerve? The brain and the brain stem is where the vagus nerve begins its route. Within the brain, this nerve controls anxiety and depression. Studies show that it could be responsible for providing the gut instinct that could be fear or stimulating anxiety that makes you feel sick to your stomach in certain situations. This causes some form of communication with the brain that is carried back and alerts one to dangers that may be occurring.
Stimulating the vagus benefits your autonomic nervous system and mental health. When stimulated, you feel calmer, more compassionate and clearer. Healthy vagal tone means emotional regulation, greater connection and better physical health as well. Increasing the vagal tone can help to overcome anxiety and depression and can also help to better manage them when they arise. This can lead to long-term improvements in mood, well-being, and resilience. We know that our mind is very powerful. We should take care and practice good mental health. You can start by sending a message to your body that it’s time to relax and de-stress.
I have practised breathing exercises and can report that this does help. My daughter and I often, jokingly, use the phrase “inhalar-exhalar” (stolen from Jane the Virgin) when we feel the other person is overreacting in a situation.
One of the main ways that you can stimulate the healthy function of the vagus nerve is through deep, slow belly breathing.
- Breathe more slowly (aim for six breaths per minute).
- Breathe more deeply, from the belly. Think about expanding your abdomen and widening your rib cage as you inhale.
- Exhale longer than you inhale
I’m fully aware that anxiety and depression is a reality for so many. Many of us have also experienced fear and trepidations about returning to “normal” during these unprecedented times. I for sure experienced moments like this, that has felt like a life time. We can support one another, and I want to urge us all to do so. Start by showing compassion towards one another and most importantly, let us always reach out in love! PS! When in distress make use of your support – reach out where someone will HEAR you. Make use of your country’s mental health support groups
24 replies on “Life can be Cold, Bleak and Beautiful”
Interesting and illuminating post! Thank you
Joanna
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Thank you so much for your kind comment Joanna 🌸💕
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Love the post. Calmness helps to bring clarity in many circumstances
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Indeed ❤️
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How interesting! I will have to make sure that nothing happens to my vagus nerve … that seems like a very important piece of our body!
And oh yes, I’ve used the “inhaler-exhalar” many times before and agree with you – it definitely helps!
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Enjoy the rest of the weekend. Wishing you good health and happiness 🌸💕
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Thank you for sharing interesting ideas!.. I do meditation which is similar to the breathing exercises.. basically just stop the world and get off for a brief moment or two and I always make sure to follow my heart…. 🙂
Hope all is well in your part of the universe and until we meet again..
May flowers always line your path
and sunshine light your way,
May songbirds serenade your
every step along the way,
May a rainbow run beside you
in a sky that’s always blue,
And may happiness fill your heart
each day your whole life through.
(Irish Saying)
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Thankfully, all good on my side of the world. Thank you for the lovely Irish saying🌸💕 Take care and best wishes to you
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Great post, Hen! And I love Jane the Virgin! 😁 ☮️🌞
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Thank you so much🌸💕 I’m glad you can relate
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This is a lovely and gracious post my friend. I liked your photographs too, it looks very cold already. The deep breathing really works. When I went through my divorce it helped me to get to sleep at night. That was ages ago but it was something I did every night pretty much. I would also do a lot of praying too sometimes combining the two. Thank you for this uplifting and kind post my friend. Sending lots of love to you and your loved ones. xoxoxo Joni
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Thank you so much dear Joni and I I also appreciate you sharing and commenting. Praying is like breathing for the soul. I love this as I also find myself combining the two. Have a stunning week ahead. Wishing you blessings in abundance and lots of love coming your way🌸💕
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You are so welcomed. I used deep breathing yesterday. Sometimes we forget. It was a lovely reminder and post.
“Praying is like breathing for the soul”
What a beautiful saying my kind Henrietta. Sending you lots of love and thankful for yours. Thank you for the blessings also. Love you, Joni 🤗❤️🦋😘🙏
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🤗❤️
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Good advice. Anxiety and depression are very serious matters. Breathing and being with someone who understands is so important, I feel. Good post!
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Thank you for your comment and your kindness.
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Thank you, that was very informative 🌷💐🌈
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Thank you so much 🌸💕
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beautiful & generous – take care of ourselves so we can be our best for others – wishing you a happy day, dear Hen ❤
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Thank you so much da-Al and very true. Take care, have a good day and an awesome week ahead 🌸💕
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This is interesting to me for several reasons. I recently began a journey toward healing a specific part of my body that is tied to digestion. Part of what I’m doing includes meditating for at least 15 minutes a day. The last 2 days, I skipped the meditation part, but today, I returned to it, and I could feel a difference almost immediately.
Another reason, is all of my life, when I feel trepidation or anger or whatever, I can LITERALLY feel it in my belly. It’s very palpable. Since, I’ve started meditating (like 7 years ago), I now know how to relax when I feel it, so I can make better decisions and not be so anxious.
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Thank you for sharing your experiences. I also also meditate, I need to do so more often, thanks for this encouragement. All the best in the healing process and I wish you much joy and blessings in abundance.
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My day begins with an hour of meditation. My father built this habit in me. And I so agree with your point here.
Wishing you and your family good health and happiness.
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Thank you for sharing, commenting and wishes. wishing you and family good health and happiness too.
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