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Navigating Life…

On one of my morning walks, I caught my breath as I witness a vehicle ignoring the stop sign and dashes across to the other side. Accidents have been reported on this very same spot, yet drivers continuously disobey to stop. I could not help but liken this to how some of us end up navigating through life.  We ignore the stop signs and continue to take risks, endangering others and even ourselves. Often because we ignore those important signs, we create stumbling blocks along the way and hinder ourselves from positive progress and end up having trouble navigating through life.

Navigating through life with psychological interventions will help ease life’s transitions. Everything from positive events to more dire situations. Adhere to those signs, stop disregarding those signs and approach your life with purpose in order to move and proceed forward. Life needs purpose, so start by enjoying the present moment instead of wishing it away for an imagined future. Continue to maintain personal values and boundaries and avoid treating others as unworthy of consideration or respect. Just a little bit of respect goes a long way, now imagine a life filled with that in every way.

As South Africans we embrace the chance to celebrate Nelson Mandela’s life for the whole of July. I therefore will end with one of his many profound quotes: “What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead”

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Always a Time for Growth 

A whirlwind of change has swept through our life in ways that could not be predicted. I must admit, at times it felt just way too much, especially as things happened very quickly and felt quite difficult to control. I continued jotting down my thoughts as this helped me to do self-examination and introspection. It cleared my mind as I could consider the actions that motivated me and helped with positive growth.

 I must admit, although I’m happy for the positive growth, the process of getting there was not always comfortable. Sudden and abrupt changes also bring along many uncertainties, but also brings along hope. I’m reminded in all of this that there is always a time for growth, even as I’m  getting older, I want to hold on and I hope that I will always grasp the opportunity for positive growth. I feel encouraged as I take my cue from mother nature with the following:

There’s a time for growth as we make our adjustments 

Giving us reason for cutting and pruning away the negative

The undesirable that has overgrown like trees and shrubs

A process that removes the damage and enhances new growth

There’s a time growing older as we celebrate life 

Liken to the oak that’s known for honour, nobility and wisdom 

Some species of oak trees holding on not losing their leaves at all

A positive quality being steadfast and tenacious in growth

There’s a time for growth, no matter the circumstances

We weather the storm, embrace the wind blowing raindrops

Producing sunshowers and the appearance of a rainbow

Resulting in hope as we cheer for positive growth

I’m further inspired to honour and celebrate Mandela Day which is an occasion for all to take action and inspire change.18 July every year, we invite you to mark Nelson Mandela International Day by making a difference in your communities. Everyone has the ability and the responsibility to change the world for the better!

“It is in the character of growth that we should learn from both pleasant and unpleasant experiences.” Nelson Mandela

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What do I See?

I see an Egyptian goose swimming in a golden pond

Altering my eyes to erase the reality of a murky pool

I urge myself to realise my blessings amid life’s challenges

The down pour of trials keeps me humble in prayer

Observing life as more than just doom and gloom

Feelings of frustration ignored as I notice the joys of life

I’m armed with encouragement to enter a new chapter

I turn that page and continue to write…

What I perceive to be my book of life